Charisma

Before you start writing, I make a public recognition of Carmen Garcia Ribas, Spanish professor, with a degree in communication sciences, for his book "I'm afraid", which has served as a reference to support and enhance the concepts discussed in this blog .

Some people would continue around the world unconditionally, because they generate good feelings about, his supporters feel this good vibe, live the positive that comes out and spreads to the whole group with just smile, and it goes without saying that the optimism is common feeling of all in that time .... this is the charismatic.

Followers feel seduced, convinced, persuaded and even accomplices of that charisma, which has previously created a feeling of unconditional commitment, feeling the need to put their problems on their hands, to remain under its influence. The charismatic, communicates to the other safety and transmits serenity and confidence, our fear is aware that the WHOLE WORLD sees, who knows why they should not ignore or avoid them, but manage our emotions and our search area comfort.
We can be just what we ?.... charismatic, if we manage our fears and remain in our comfort zone (where we feel safety and knowledge to solve problems. There is trust full). When we feel fear, we inform our attitudes with others. Find our comfort zone, is where the key to everything, because that is where the minds and strategically plan our attitudes

Many times we are afraid to fail, even before he tried with success. Our fears are a source Physics (real fear that is good and appropriate as it allows us to be prevented in case of attack, affected or paralyzed subject. But there is another source, the psycho-social, whose fears are not always real, but created by our minds, and that are currently causing severe damage to us in our physical, mental, spiritual and emotional, and is the main cause which takes us away from our comfort zone
We can summarize the last point that the greatest fears is divided in fear of rejection (more women) and fear of failure (more masculine), but in today's society, both men and women share scenarios, responsibilities and decisions, we must manage in general without specifying which conforms more to that genre. How can we manage our fears ?...... the answer lies in the words, breath and smile
Negative words caused unease in us, therefore we must substitute positive words, self-motivating, stimulating, and change our mental reality, and again we feel appreciated, loved and / or recognized. As for breathing, every time we have a problem or our fear grips us, our breath shortens, and diminishes our spirit goes to the floor and away the serenity and negativism creeps into us. It is when we must learn to counteract breathing slowly recovering and will normally calm and our common sense appears again, and if we add the breath to walk, swim or exercise, we feel more calm and relaxed.

And finally, the smile ... .... Smile sends a strong message of acceptance, adoption, integration, and has an effect on trust. Always a charismatic smile, breathe in an aura of confidence and unique, and his words come to all alike by his positivism. Many people dream of freedom but love the chains that bind, because his hair and arranged appearance but they do the same with your heart, spirit and mind .... And as an Arab proverb says: "I do not understand a glance not mean a lengthy explanation ... .. I think if we add in addition to the words, breath and smile ... ... .. to the creativity (the one with imagination, how easily a thing out of the world), solidarity (love you feel da, which in the receiver), the wisdom (the fall is not a problem, not up, if) and gratitude (a pleasant and peaceful heart is a festival in every village) ... .. we can find our comfort zone with ease and then feel our charisma. Fear leads to what is feared. If positive thinking, breathing calmly, and learn to relax before the problems with a smile is always a key, then join wisely ... ... many years of life to our existence ... ... after all, the wisdom of man is hidden their knowledge ... ... grasp.